The next part of the chapter brings up validating who you are as a person, both in and out of the lifestyle. It also asks that when doing the excersizes in this case- to see yourself as an " unnattached" Master or slave. The opinion of Dr. Bob and his family is that you are who you are whether you have an Owner or Own someone.
Ex. #3
As a person outside of the Kinky Community
Who I am.... How I practice....
Intelligent I like to challenge myself to learn and try new things.
Rare I am not like anyone else, I can only be described as me.
Educator I like to share my experiences, and work with younger children
As an unattached slave
Who I am.... How I practice...
Playful I have a good sense of humor, and I like to have a good time.
Strong I'm not a doormat, nor a pushover, and I will tell you if something is not
appropriate for me.
Vulnerable I am easily offended, and hurt.
Obediant I take care of my responsibilities as needed to keep myself in order.
The next part of the chapter involves alot of introspection and several things that need to be discussed or brought up between my Sir and I. I am going to email several of these to Him and see if he wants to go over any of them, or most of them as he sees fit. With the current differences in space and time, some of them may not be applicable.
It also discusses ensuring that when going through excersizes the importance of putting a positive spin on things. It emphasizes the use of this positive spin to write the first few pages of your own autobiography. But to start writing it from the point of view of "me in five years" writing about the effects today has had. The more detail you put in the more likley it is to happen.
Insanity: doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.
Albert Einstein
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